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Aim High
“Aim at the sun, and
you may not reach it; but your arrow will fly far higher
than if aimed at an object on a level with yourself.” —
Joel Hawes
(Draft -- You are looking at an early draft of this
topic. It has not yet been proofed, and it will now
doubt be massaged many times over for context, grammar,
and clarity)
The Biggest mistake that
both people and businesses make, is to not aim high with
their goals. I have a couple of short scenarios that
might help make my point of how not aiming high can, at
the very least, delay success.
Business
Scenario:
In 1977, two brothers and I started a collection agency.
We had all been debt collectors for a couple of
different collection agencies – while the eldest
(actually a foster brother) had been quite successful as
a branch manager at a few National agencies – but more
recently had owned a small agency with another partner
who he couldn’t get along with. We were barely cranking
out a living collecting on hot checks and picking up
rental furniture, and all of us had another job to
supplement our incomes. I remember asking the eldest
brother why we weren’t going after the big clients like
American Express and large bankcard centers – and he
told me that we could never expect to have clients like
that.
A few years later, I’d left the agency to work in the
computer industry and attend college at night. The older
brother was bought out by my younger brother, a close
friend was brought in to handle the marketing and given
11% of the agency, and I was brought back to handle the
operations (management, administration, and automation)
and given 38% of the agency. We decided then that we’d
aim high and go after the big clients with the attitude
that we deserved them, and that they needed us. While I
sold my interest in 1986, today that agency is the
largest privately owned agency in the World; employing
hundreds of people, bringing tens of millions in
collections each month, and earning over $1,000,000 in
profit per month. Had the three of us not agreed to aim
high – the agency might still be collecting local bad
checks and the owners starving. Once we set goals that
others scoffed at, and then planned for it – there was
no holding the business back.
Personal
Scenario:
In 1980, while taking that little leave of absence
spoken of in the last scenario, I was selling small
business computers during the day and going to a
community college at night for Business Management.
Prior to working as a salesman for this computer
company, I’d worked as a service technician – first for
a mailroom equipment company, and then for a computer
CRT and printer company. As a technician, I saw the
salesmen strutting like roasters while the techs were
treated like chickens. They were paid many times what we
earned – but they always depended on us do the technical
demonstrations of the equipment they never learned to
operate – while they acted like Herb f(rom WKRP in
Cincinnati) trying to close the deals. I decided that I
could easily do what they did, and that if you couldn’t
beat them – join them.
I went to a small one-man employment agency in my small
town, looking for him to find me a sales position. While
he wasn’t impressed with my credentials (or ability to
pay a fee), he was impressed with my enthusiasm. He told
me that he really didn’t have anything for me – but knew
a man who owned a small store in Rochester, NY, which
sold small business computers to walk-in traffic. They
didn’t do any outside sales – just retail.
An interview was scheduled with the owner. When I
arrived for the interview the owner briefly scanned over
my resume and then told me that he didn’t need another
service technician – interview over. I told him that I
was looking for a sales position – and no longer wanted
to be a technician. His response was that he didn’t take
chances with salesmen without prior experience or a
marketing degree.
I offered to work “risk-free” on full commission –
without any salary or draw. That got his attention, and
a deal was struck to where I’d be paid 8% of my gross
sales – 45 days after month ended to reverse the
returns. One check per month, no benefits – and no
guarantee.
Fast forward a year and I’m the second best producer of
the four – and earning $5,000+- a month in straight
commissions, which was big money for a 25-year-old kid
in 1980. One day while I was giving a demonstration of
an application, I got a little excited and thus was
louder than I should have been. After the customer had
ordered a system from me and had left the store, the
owner (who was a fairly reserved and quiet man) called
me into his office and scolded me about being so loud.
Also in the office was the best salesman (with regards
to knowledge, sales, and earnings), or more accurately
the "unofficial sales manager".
When Doug left, the "unofficial sales manager" asked to
speak with me. Now he came from old money, had a Harvard
MBA, and liked to hang out at the Yacht Club to sip
wine. He had always treated me as beer drinking trailer
trash – so I figured he was going to really rub my nose
in it. However, to my surprise he told me to ignore what
the owner had just said, and to continue selling the way
I was. He felt like my excitement was effective with the
prospects – and creating sales that a dry demonstration
wouldn’t be able to close. he said that he’d wish he
could exchange his product knowledge for my enthusiasm –
as it he felt I was more effective.
In a moment, never to be repeated, he and I had a heart
to heart talk about life. We talked of goals, and he
told me that he had the ultimate goal of hitting
$100,000 a year in earnings. I was flabbergasted (and I
guess naïve) and told him that no one makes that kind of
money. He responded that people do indeed make that kind
of money and I could too, if I wanted it bad enough to
"Aim High" for it.
Putting it
Together:
In this same period of time – perhaps even the same week
– the second half of the formula required to encourage
me to “Aim High” occurred. I was a Viet Nam Era Veteran
going to the local community college at night on the GI
Bill plan that was specific to Viet Nam Era vets. At the
time, the plan would have the VA send us $377 a month to
go to college full time. We’d have to pay our tuition
and books out of that – but it still left plenty, more
than any part-time job. Most colleges then had a
“wink-wink” system where they’d split each class with a
break – but it wouldn’t be in the middle or the class.
The instructor would take roll call and then immediately
call for the break. Ten minutes later you would notice
that the class was missing all of its Vets.
I was pretty serious about trying to climb out of the
poverty I’d grown up in – and took these classes pretty
serious. At the same time that "unofficial sales
manager" had convinced me that I should also have the
goal of $100,000 a year – I had a business professor by
the name of Dr. Canale. Dr. Canale had been a self-made
success as a businessman, and now into his 70s wanted to
give back by teaching others. I don’t know if I’ve ever
met anyone sharper than Dr. Canale. One day he pulls me
aside and tells me that he respects the fact that unlike
the other Vets in his classes -- I was taking his class
serious. He was pretty irritated that good seats were
being taken for only 10 minutes a class in this sham. I
responded with saying that I had big goals – and that
one was to hit $100,000 a year in earnings. Dr. Canale
claimed to be impressed with my goals and enthusiasm,
and suggested four books to read that would help. Those
books were Dress for Success, Up the Organization, In
Search of Excellence, and the One Minute Manager. All of
these books were then required reading for a Business
Degree.
Those books were a great help in both learning
techniques that would pay off for me, while also pumping
me up to use those techniques. Much of what I learned
from those books (and a few others), I try to condense
in this book – but please read them also. In the book,
In Search of Excellence, I learned quite a bit about
goals and “Aiming High”. You will find more detail on
that topic elsewhere in this book, however there’s one
more point that is related to this topic. People will
seldom exceed their goals because they didn't plan to
achieve a goal that high. I would much rather achieve
90% of my very high goals -- than 100% of my very low
goals.
Elsewhere in this book, you will learn that I believe we
should always have three goals. An Immediate Goal, a
Mid-Range Goal, and a Long-Range Goal. These goals are
moving targets and can be related to wealth, family,
happiness, health or other achievements.
Shortly after learning of this concepts of goals – I set
my three. My best bud (then and now) are as different as
night and day – but as close as brothers. While I live
to work – he works to live. He is a smart man who
prepares tax returns. Three months a year he busts his
ass, while nine months a year he kicks back and enjoys.
My bud doesn’t require much money to live on or to be
happy with – so this all works well for him. Anyway, I
made the mistake of once telling my bud that I had the
goal of making $100,000 a year in earnings – and I
thought he was going to die laughing at me. I’m actually
glad he did, as it pushed me all the more to hit my
goal. Once I saw the concept of three goals worked –
I’ve never looked back.
Elsewhere in this book, there is a topic on Nepotism –
and my feelings on that topic. Anyway, I love my father,
but he’s never exactly been what you’d call a financial
success. I have three younger brothers, three younger
sisters, and an older foster brother. We grew up in
sheer poverty, and I hated every moment of it, and the
ridicule we received. We were not in poverty because my
father was lazy – as he often worked 18 hours a day 7
days a week. The problem was that he never aimed high or
had a plan – and those three jobs at any one time paid
slightly better than minimum wage.
About 1984, I was back at the collection agency with my
brother and another partner. We were hustling pretty
hard and things were starting to happen. Along the way I
hired my father as sort of a combination salesman for
the smaller clients and gofer, as he was having
employment problems. He stayed at that job for about a
dozen years – until he retired.
One day my father mentions that his mind reels over
hearing conversations my brother and I have – speaking
of money (collected and remitted to clients) in the
hundreds of thousands. Further in the conversation, I
mentioned something to the effect that 6-digits are
really nothing, because I have a Mid-Range Goal of a net
worth of a million dollars. He starts to beam of pride
for the goal (much like when your four-year-old son
tells you he’ll be an astronaut) – then proceeds to tell
me that my goal is most likely too lofty – and something
to the effect that he would hate to see me set myself up
for disappointment when/if (I forget which word he used)
I don’t hit it.
Point here is to not let anyone’s comments affect your
“Aiming High”. Most people don’t aim high – and
hopefully you want something a little better than most
people. I think my father was the last person I divulged
one of my three goals to. While I feel like my track
record would have more people as believers instead of
doubters now – why bother involving others with
discussing your personal goals.
Having those goals without putting together and acting
on a reasonable plan to achieve those goals, will just
make you a dreamer. I once had a brother-in-law who was
a dreamer. He felt by just having the dream and saying
it over and over – it would come true, as if magic Genie
was going to grant it to him. He did nothing about his
dreams – and 20 years later he is unemployed and has
something like seven kids with five different wives –
and has never paid a penny of child support to any of
them. I’m very thankful my sister saw him for what he
was within a year of marrying him – and spared herself
and her son further of this dreamer turned loser.
In a nutshell, “Aim High” and then put together
reasonable plans for hitting those goals. Components to
putting together a plan are found in the other topics
all through this book. A good plan uses what you’ve
learned from all of those topics – plus has some
flexibility to make adjustments.
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