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Dress For Success
It Is A Cold Hard Fact
That Your Appearance Determines Some Of Your Success
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You can debate all
you want on whether it is right or wrong – but the fact
is that clothes makes the person, at least in the eyes
of those of business people.
Back in the early eighties, required reading for
virtually everyone studying for a business degree was
“Dress For Success”, by John Malloy. In the book, he
showed where people were immediately summed up, mostly
by how they were dressed.
For instance, businessmen usually wore either light
beige or dark blue overcoats in the winter. Upper
executives most always bought and wore the light beige –
while middle managers more often liked to wear the dark
blue overcoat. There was no written rule for this – just
the way it usually happened, most likely because that is
what their counterparts did.
What John Malloy did was to take the same man and to
send him to a large number of big businesses, asking to
speak with the top executive (research previously done
for him to know that person’s name and request him
specifically). The one difference would be ½ of the time
he would wear a light beige overcoat and the other times
he was in the dark blue overcoat. In a far higher
percentage of times he gained access to who he had
requested to see wearing the light beige overcoat –
while more often than not that executive’s secretary
would stop him cold, and send him on his way when he was
wearing the dark blue coat. The executive secretary was
mentally conditioned (most likely from observing the
pecking order of the companies she had worked at) to
judge the success level of the visitor simply by one
article of clothing. While polyester Leisure Suits,
satin shirts, white patent leather shoes and belt were
great for going out to the Disco (if you did that then)
when I studied this – it was never acceptable in any
business more respectable than a used car lot or Bail
Bondsman.
The studies I had read also spoke of the proper mixing
of patterns between suit, shirt and tie; the mixing of
colors; and the types of fabrics attributed to
successful businessmen. For instance, black shoes were
more often worn by the top executives, while you would
seldom see a top executive wearing brown shoes. It was
suggested that Jewish businessmen associated brown suits
with Nazis in WWII. Big men needing to tone down their
authority were told to wear light gray, while smaller
men needing to be taken more seriously were told to wear
dark blue pinstripes. Only waiters wore black trousers –
unless it was a formal Tuxedo. Executives always wore a
suit (and never a sport coat to the office), always had
their collar and cuffs fastened, and always wore the
suit’s coat – unless working in their office alone.
Also based on studies, it was theorized that the type
and amount of jewelry a man wore gave people a
preconceived idea of the man wearing it. In business it
was suggested that highly successful men wore a wedding
band, a tasteful watch, and maybe their college ring –
at the most. Those wearing less conservative jewelry
like a pinky ring, bracelet, or a tie tack were less
often treated as if they were a successful executive.
Again, it was the early eighties when studied the
subject, and my focus was on the man’s part of the
equation. Many trends have changed over the years. While
many offices have gone more casual – those businesses
are thought of as less professional by those wanting to
do business with that type of business. My observances
have been that the most successful people at the most
successful businesses still adhere to the same
principles I studied many years ago. Conservative dress
never goes out of style with successful businessmen.
While the number of buttons on a coat, the width of the
tie and lapels, and the collar styles change – the
colors, patterns, and how a suit is worn has not changed
much at all in the last thirty years.
I can assure you that if you are a man who wears a loud
suit, “Comfortable” looking shoes, diamond earrings, a
gold tooth, a watch with a wide silver band and stones
in it, and/or a Cadillac medallion suspended from a
thick gold chain around your neck – you will not be
considered successful unless you are a music promoter or
pimp. A businessman who does not dress for success hurts
the business he represents – and in turn himself when he
is continually passed up in promotions or finding he
again is looking for work and wondering why.
This section is meant to push the point that everyone is
judged by how they dress, and while it is beyond the
scope of this book to go into great detail on how you
should dress for success – it is meant to get you to
study this topic further. There general principles that
also apply to the businesswomen on the road to business
success – and women should research what the studies say
about a businesswoman is dressed.
I strongly suggest
reading a book specific to this topic for a more
detailed explaination.
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